# Morning - [ ] # Afternoon - [ ] Prep presentation # Gaps - [ ] Call Fr Rory - [ ] Write Fr Tom - [ ] Call Noelle - [ ] # Makerspace - [x] Install / prep fusion - [ ] Print handouts - [ ] - [ ] Teach CNC class # Noelle - I didn't manage the trip well. I set no expectations even moment-to-moment. I failed to prepare an itinerary. I failed to decide what we were doing hour-to-hour. I left you drifting and aimless, and left myself drifting and aimless. There is a royal path to toe between structure and anarchy, and I definitely slipped into anarchy. Please forgive me for that. - I failed to # JBP - High-level goals are best when they are approaches - Movement partner rather than 'trying to go back to where you were when dating' - Ability to grieve; acknowledgement of reality; can't deal with the grief of us failing to live up to who we could be - Women ARE MORE LIKELY TO BRING UP PROBLEMS - this is normal; they're more sensitive. - If your wife is coming to you for help with her problems, you don't know, and she doesn't really even know either. - People will often solve their problems themselves - Listen and genuinely love; don't solve. - Summarizing can help - Don't jump to solutions. GOD. I wish I heard this a week ago.