# Virtues  Have excellent ideas  Can always see new possibility in things  Do not feel that I always have to be in control  Am entrepreneurial  Have a soft heart  Do what I say I am going to do  Am a very loyal friend  Love children  Make people feel at ease  Can take charge and lead  Feel at ease with people  Like to invite people out or at home to socialize  Do not dominate conversations  Am comfortable alone  Enjoy time in natural surroundings  Do not always need to seek excitement or novelty  Do not always have to be the center of attention  Am full of ideas  Am philosophically inclined  See the value in tradition and custom  Do not believe in change for the sake of change  Am stable in my moral beliefs  Am concerned that my parents or relatives approve of my decisions  Am a down-to-earth person  Am very goal-oriented  Am not too uptight  Know how to go with the flow  Don't waste my time thinking about little details  Am content with my physical appearance, despite its flaws  Am difficult to offend  Am very careful with my sexual behavior  Don't rush into things before I feel comfortable  Am on good terms with nearly everyone  Sympathize with others' feelings  Truly care about others  Do not always believe what people promise  Can be demanding when the circumstances warrant   # Faults  Have a hard time planning for the future because I am interested in everything  Am too quiet around strangers  Sometimes every thought I have immediately suggests an overwhelming number of ideas  Let my fears stop me from doing things I want to do  Am without real ambition  Have too little to say  Could be a better listener  Compare myself unfavorably to other people  Can bottle up my feelings until I become resentful  Have a hard time making up my mind because I can always see all the sides of an argument  Sometimes act without thinking  Can be too theatrical or dramatic  Don't laugh much or have fun  Have a difficult time starting conversations  Pursue too many activities at the same time  Am interested in so many things that I don't know what to focus on  Am sometimes attracted by ideas that are radical but have not been thought through  Can become possessed by an idea  Daydream too much  Have had a hard time forming a clear identity  See connections between things too easily  Am too perfectionistic  Get obsessed with details and lose the big picture  Feel that I am being unproductive if I relax  Leave my belongings around  Surf the web or watch TV or waste time in other ways even if I have a project due  Neglect my duties  Often procrastinate  Waste my time  Have few clearly defined goals  Have found myself in dangerous situations because I was not paying attention  Often feel depressed and blue  Avoid conflict even when it is necessary  Cannot negotiate for myself very well  Would probably help me if I could be more competitive  Often feel uncomfortable around others  Wait for others to lead the way  Could be more socially skilled  Feel inadequate when introduced to new people  Feel too fearful, afraid and anxious # The Ideal Future ### Role Models - Joel Salatin - Fr. Boucher - E.F. Schumacher - Rafael Peschiera, Mr. Sherburne ### Who do you want to be? I want to be someone who is well-integrated into my community, who seeks to lift up those around me and point them towards God. I want to be someone who is useful and dependable, with my head, heart, and hands. ### What do you want to do? *When are you "on"? Where do you get in productive flow and don't want to stop?* ### Where do you want to end up? *Well obviously, I want to end up in Heaven.* ### Why do you want these things? ### How do you plan to achieve your goals? ### When will you put your plans into action? # A Future to Avoid ### Imagine your life 3-5 years down the road if you failed to stay on the path you know you should be on. # Actionable Steps ### Things to Learn ### Improve your Habits ### Social Life in the Future ### Liesure Activity in the Future ### Family Life in the Future